On Saturday night, I met up with a guy I’ve been seeing from okcupid. We had an okay time. Mostly he was just annoying me because he kept saying that I was acting “weird” when I wasn’t.
Rule of thumb Gents: Dont insist that your date is acting in one certain way because it’s the fastest way to get your date to actually act that way. And/or annoyed. Which I was.
He bitched about not feeling well almost the entire time, and I being as “weird” as I was, was not up to hearing it. So I kept telling him we could hang out again, or he could go home and get better, and that it was okay. He refused, kept on going how much he wanted to see me but continually bitched about his stomach. Finally he decided to come over to my place so he could see my room. This eventually led to making out for quite some time.
Now, I’m not really blaming him but I proceeded to be sick the day after I saw him. I’m just saying this could have been a factor in my having been sick since Sunday.
Here’s the best part of this story:
When I spoke to him three days later (i want no contact with the world when I’m sick) he accused me of “avoiding” and again, being “weird” to which I had to pull out the Cuntress card and explain that I wasnt avoiding him, but was actually quite ill.
When I told him I was sick this was his response,
“Omg am I going to get sick? I havent been sick since I saw you.”
Not an “Oh, are you okay? Will you be? Is there anything I can do?”
Granted those responses took about another three minutes to jump to his brain’s forefront, but not before I had to point out how amazingly concerned he was for my well-being.
I’m now completely ‘eh’ on seeing him again. Goes to show he was right, I am being ‘weird’. Jerk.
